Finding Your Best Self

Are You Tired of Settling for Less?

There’s So Much More to Life

For a lot of people, the idea of living your best life is a fantasy. The hopes, goals, and dreams they once had have become distant memories as they’ve settled for far less than they wanted. Several years ago, I realized I was one of these people.

It was New Year’s Eve. I stepped back from the crowd of partygoers and was hit with a reality I had been avoiding, this wasn’t the life I wanted to live. Sure, I had great friends and a good job, but I wouldn’t have described my life as anything special, nothing fulfilling or exciting or meaningful. It was a routine, a comfortable, never-changing routine. And I wanted out.

I decided that night that things had to change. Through a process of self-discovery, trial and error, and incredible coaching, I unlocked a version of myself that I knew was inside, but never knew how to access. When I did, things were never the same. Step by step I built the life I once imagined, a life full of adventure and excitement and joy. I became the best version of myself and dedicated the rest of my life to showing others how it was done.

A Life Changing Solution

I was living a miserable, mundane life of 9-5 work, in order to pay bills, buy groceries and take care of my family. I felt like a robot that was programmed to perform the same routine day after day, year after year. When the financial crash of the early 2000s came, it hit me like a ton of bricks. Though I had a career, I still ended up-side-down in a new home that I eventually lost. My marriage was on the brink of separation, and our finances were in shambles. I then had an epiphany. I was living an impoverished life. I never took time to design the life I wanted; I was just living the life I had. And now, it was no longer good enough.

From that moment, I committed to improving my life, not just for me, but for my wife and children.

I became a student of life. I studied the Life Leadership Paragon, which enabled me to take in introspective look within and identify those deeply seated issues that became the framework of how I lived my life. During my studies, I found the best version of myself. My perceptions and outlook dramatically changed for the better. My marriage healed, my family bonds became stronger, and our finances increased. Years later, I went on to become a certified life coach, and attained several other credentials that focus on the human dimension. Empowered with knowledge and insight from my years of experience and learning, I developed an 8-week resilience and mindfulness program that allows me to share my recipe to help you find the best version of yourself and start living your best life as a result. It would be an honor to share my recipe with you.

Preparing and Developing: We will connect weekly to discuss your plan of action
Learning & Accountability: Between sessions, you will engage in written activities to prepare you for the next session
Tearing down: We will focus on limiting thoughts and behaviors
Reframing: We will focus on embracing positive thinking and empowering perspectives
Building: We will focus on building your esteem and outlook on life

Sustaining: We will revisit the initial plan, adjust (if necessary), and forge ahead
Reflecting: You will provide insight on your mindset from week one, and where you are mentally at week seven
Attaining: You will provide insight on what it means to attain and be the best version of yourself
Declaring: You will provide insight on the life you have designed, now that you have found your best self
Sending: We will conclude our 8-week session with you confidently finding your best self, and are now ready for a dynamic life

This Is Not the Only Version of Your Life

Imagine knowing, with certainty, what you want to make of your life. Imagine how it would feel to wake up each day with that clarity. How would you carry yourself? How would you treat those around you? How would you view the world?

Now imagine that you not only knew what you wanted, but you were making it happen. You were motivated, each and every day, to make progress toward your goals, no matter what stood in your way. Imagine having that type of ability for the rest of your life. With a coach, with a plan, it’s all possible.

Clarity

Know exactly what you want to be, do, and have in every area of life

Motivation

Tap into an inner drive and confidence that you didn’t know you had

Fulfillment

Live a life of meaning and fulfillment through the days, months, and years

Jay Baker is an authentic leader. He exhibits the rare ability to connect with people on an emotional level to help people achieve their best - own their terms. His many years of leading in dynamic environments has given him a grasp of the human experience and apply his insights in ways that helped me attain my goals.

Steven C., Stuttgart, Germany/Adjunct Professor of Business

Jay Baker helped me "flip my switch". His program of the same name gave me a self-awareness I had not previously exercised. I was just going about my day in, day out life and did not stop to consider where my life was headed. Jay helped me visualize the life I wanted. He coached me on taking action to achieve my goals. I now have the motivation to go after all the things I've dreamed of achieving.

Monica P., Richmond, VA/ Nurse Practitioner

Here's the thing, I wasn't even looking for coaching. My wife was the one who first worked with Jay to help her address her limiting beliefs as she prepared to acquire a business. After seeing how her perspectives changed about ideas she used to be so wedded to, I knew this guy was on to something that really helped people. So, I decided to work with him. One of the best decisions I've made. Jay helped me to see my pattern of established behaviors, and how they were holding me back from taking leaps of faith that would dramatically change my (our) life. The investment in myself was truly worth every penny.

Brian W., Fayetteville, NC/Engineer

Are You Ready to Take the First Step?

At this point, you can follow one of two paths. First, you can move on without clicking the button below and continue doing what you’ve always done. And, chances are, you’ll continue getting what you’ve always gotten. You can continue to struggle with your goals and dreams and face the challenges alone.

Or you can choose the second path.

You can choose to do something different, to stop trying to figure this out all by yourself and instead follow the lead of someone who has already figured out how to achieve the very things you want so badly. You know where you’ll be in a year if you choose to do nothing, but there’s no telling how far you’ll go in life with an expert by your side, guiding you every step of the way.

If you’re ready to change your life, I invite you to choose the second path, click the button below, and take the first step toward a bigger, brighter tomorrow.

Questions? Click here to contact us.

Jay Baker, CA, CAMS-I, CCM, CDP, PHR

Your Certified Life Coach

Jason (Jay) Baker is the founder of Aurora Life Solutions and Consulting, LLC. With more than 25 years of leadership, executive experience, and innovative thinking; Jason is a guiding force in the realm of life coaching, with emphasis on empowering his clients to take control of their lives. His focus on personal development sets conditions for holistic growth, thereby motivating one to pursue their passion and live life with purpose. Jason is a military veteran and retiree, serving more than 25 years in the United States Army. Throughout his career, Jason coached and mentored a multitude of Service Members and their families across ranks and services. His signature slogan, “Find and Live Your Best Life Starting Today”; has inspired people from all walks of life. His empathetic approach of meeting people at their point of need has enabled him to build trust and motivate those he reaches to take control of their lives and attain personal transformation by exercising the power of execution. Jason has helped hundreds discover how to realize their dreams and build a strategy for changing their outlook on life, and take action toward achieving their goals. A change maker, Jason Baker has been featured on Anchorage Daily News, AFN-Europe and the FYI Radio Show; and is expanding to reach everyone at their point of need.

Jay possesses several credentials that enable him to help his clients address the deepest levels for change. As a Certified Life Coach, Jay is a member of the International Association of Coaching (IAC). He is a certified Credentialed Advocate through the National Organization for Victim Advocacy (NOVA). He is a Certified Anger Management Specialist through the National Anger Management Association (NAMA). He is a Certified Conflict Manager through the Management and Strategy Institute (MSI). Jay is also a Certified Cultural Diversity and Inclusion Professional through the Diversity Executive Leadership Academy. A life-long learner, Jay is committed to helping clients exercise positive change in their lives.